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As you get older and develop closer relationships with your friends you may become aware of something being not' quite right'. They may be behaving in a strange way or have unexplained cuts and bruises. They may say something that causes you concern. So, what do you do?
It's important NOT to rush in and demand explanations. If your friend is being abused they will be very frightened and confused. The most important thing you can do is talk to them in a controlled and calm way. If they do confide you must NEVER agree to keep it a secret. You might be worried that people wills see you as a busybody or as interfering…this is not the case; if you keep it a secret then you are NOT helping them.
You MUST encourage them to tell a trusted adult:
But what if your friend won't admit what is going on? If you have real concerns then you must speak to someone, explaining how you feel and why.
Remember, it's a very draining experience and would leave anybody tired and emotional. If you are suffering from M.E. then you need to be very careful that you don't overdo things - share the burden!
If you need professional advice see our keeping yourself safe links. Remember, if you are seriously worried that your friend might be in danger call the Police or Social Services straight away.
